Words of Encouragement

topic posted Tue, January 9, 2007 - 9:17 PM by  Caroleeena
In the quest to acquire new skills, we can all benefit from words of encouragement. I collect quotes. I think they are distilled wisdom. Tonight I went through my quotes and pulled out these words of encouragement to share with you. I'd love to hear yours as well. Here goes...

"Our ability to get better at things is directly proportional to the amount of embarrassment we are willing to tolerate."

"Anything worth doing is worth doing poorly at first." - Robert Downey Jr.

"No one lives long enough to learn everything they need to learn starting from scratch. To be successful, we absolutely, positively have to find people who have already paid the price to learn the things that we need to learn to achieve our goals." - Brian Tracy

"If you can’t take a little bloody nose, maybe you ought to go back home and crawl under your bed. It’s not safe out here. It’s wondrous, with treasures to satiate desires both subtle and gross. But it’s not for the timid." - Q (from Deep Space Nine)

"People of accomplishment rarely sit back and let things happen to them. They go out and happen to things." - Leonardo da Vinci

"Hold up your head! You were not made for failure, you were made for victory. Go forward with a joyful confidence in that result sooner or later, and the sooner or later will depend mainly on yourself."

"He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has." - Epictetus

"enjoy being"

"Success means having the courage, the determination, and the will to become the person you believe you were meant to be." - George Sheehan

"You can gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do." - Eleanor Roosevelt

"It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult." - Seneca

"I've never quit anything. I'm just not done yet." - Carolyn Mabry (this is the only one in here from me)

"There will always be dreams grander or humbler than your own, but there will never be a dream exactly like your own ... for you are unique and more wondrous than you know!" - Linda Staten

"You know as well as I do that fear exists for only one purpose . . . to be conquered." - Capt. Katherine Janeway (Star Trek Voyager)

"As you teach so will you learn. What you teach is teaching you." - Course in Miracles

"Don't ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive." - Harold Whitman

"The world would have you agree with its dismal dream of limitation. But the light would have your soar like the eagle of your sacred visions." - Alan Cohen

"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage." - Anais Nin

"There is no strong performance without a little fanaticism in the performer." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"That which we persist in doing becomes easier – not that the nature of the task has changed, but our ability to do has increased." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"We aim above the mark to hit the mark." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"The absence of risk is a sure sign of mediocrity." - Charles de Foucauld

"To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best day and night to make you everybody else, means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight, and never stop fighting." - e.e.cummings

"I claim to be an average man of less than average ability. I have not the shadow of a doubt that any man or woman can achieve what I have, if he or she would make the same effort and cultivate the same hope and faith." - Mahatma Gandhi

"We pay a heavy price for our fear of failure. It is a powerful obstacle to growth. It assures the progressive narrowing of the personality and prevents exploration and experimentation. There is no learning without some difficulty and fumbling. If you want to keep on learning, you must keep on risking failure -- all your life." - John W. Gardner

"The two terrors that discourage originality and creative living are fear of public opinion and undue reverence for one’s own consistency." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"When we yield to discouragement it is usually because we give too much thought to the past and to the future." - St. Therese of Lisieux

"Every artist was first an amateur." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"It takes courage to grow up and turn out to be who you really are." - e.e. cummings

"If you are lucky enough to find a way of life you love, you have to find the courage to live it." - John Irving

"It takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it does to have tried and succeeded." - Anne Morrow Lindbergh

"You’ve got to go out on a limb sometimes because that’s where the fruit is." - Will Rogers

"Life gives to every man a staff and scale of notes. The song he sings is one of his own fashioning." - Alma Lonsdale

"The only man who never makes a mistake is the man who never does anything." - Theodore Roosevelt

"Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great." - Mark Twain

"Those who know they don’t know, gain wisdom. Those who pretend they know, remain ignorant." - Taoist Proverb

"Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up." - Thomas Alva Edison

"Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful." - Albert Schweitzer

"If I won't be myself, who will?" - Alfred Hitchcock

"You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own and you know what you know. You are the one who'll decide where you go." - Dr. Seuss

"Challenge lies not in being better than another man but in being superior to one’s previous self."

"Those who control their passions do so because their passions are weak enough to be controlled." - William Blake

"We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements in life, when all that we need to make us really happy is something to be enthusiastic about." - Charles Kingsley

"We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing." - George Bernard Shaw

"The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are." - Joseph Campbell

"Follow your bliss and doors will open where there were no doors before." - Joseph Campbell

"Courage does not always roar. Sometimes, it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, “I will try again tomorrow.”

"Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself." - George Bernard Shaw

"I am always doing that which I cannot do in order that I may learn how to do it." - Pablo Picasso

"If you have zest and enthusiasm you attract zest and enthusiasm. Life does give back in kind." - Norman Vincent Peale

"As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world… as in being able to remake ourselves." - Mahatma Gandhi

"History has demonstrated that the most notable winners usually encountered heartbreaking obstacles before they triumphed. They won because they refused to become discouraged by their defeats." - B.C. Forbes

"The bravest thing you can do when you are not brave is to profess courage and act accordingly." - Corra May White Harris

"Use the talents you possess, for the woods would be very silent if no birds sang except the best."

"Only those who attempt the absurd will achieve the impossible. I think it's in my basement... let me go upstairs and check." - M.C. Escher

"A life lived in fear is a life half lived." - Spanish Proverb
posted by:
Caroleeena
Raleigh
  • Oooooh FUN!

    Wed, January 10, 2007 - 10:21 AM
    I'm a quote fanatic! I love the ones you posted...

    Here are a few of my favorites:

    Adopting an attitude of universal responsibility is essentially a
    personal matter. The real test of compassion is not what we say in
    abstract discussions but how we conduct ourselves in daily life.
    ~Dalai Lama~

    Life should not be a journey to the grave with
    the intention of arriving
    safely in a pretty and well
    preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside,
    thoroughly used up,
    totally worn out, and loudly
    proclaiming "Wa-HOOOO! What a ride!!"

    The Invitation

    It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living.
    I want to know what you ache for
    and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.

    It doesn’t interest me how old you are.
    I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
    for love
    for your dream
    for the adventure of being alive.

    It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
    I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow
    if you have been opened by life’s betrayals
    or have become shrivelled and closed
    from fear of further pain.

    I want to know if you can sit with pain
    mine or your own
    without moving to hide it
    or fade it
    or fix it.

    I want to know if you can be with joy
    mine or your own
    if you can dance with wildness
    and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
    without cautioning us
    to be careful
    to be realistic
    to remember the limitations of being human.

    It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me
    is true.
    I want to know if you can
    disappoint another
    to be true to yourself.
    If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
    and not betray your own soul.
    If you can be faithless
    and therefore trustworthy.

    I want to know if you can see Beauty
    even when it is not pretty
    every day.
    And if you can source your own life
    from its presence.

    I want to know if you can live with failure
    yours and mine
    and still stand at the edge of the lake
    and shout to the silver of the full moon,
    “Yes.”

    It doesn’t interest me
    to know where you live or how much money you have.
    I want to know if you can get up
    after the night of grief and despair
    weary and bruised to the bone
    and do what needs to be done
    to feed the children.

    It doesn’t interest me who you know
    or how you came to be here.
    I want to know if you will stand
    in the centre of the fire
    with me
    and not shrink back.

    It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom
    you have studied.
    I want to know what sustains you
    from the inside
    when all else falls away.

    I want to know if you can be alone
    with yourself
    and if you truly like the company you keep
    in the empty moments.
    ~Oriah Mountain Dreamer



    More later...
    :)
    • Re: Oooooh FUN!

      Thu, January 11, 2007 - 1:03 AM
      I don't have any really lovely quotes, but I enjoyed those.. here's my contribution:

      "If the hoop isn't falling anymore, you're not challenging yourself enough." - from Davester last week, but I think he was attributing it to Baxter.

      There's a lot of hoop ducking and chasing in my classes :) Goes along with the laughter...

      X.
    • Re: Oooooh FUN!

      Wed, July 2, 2008 - 10:44 AM
      I LOVE the invitation! It was given to me by a mentor and wow did it open me up~ I love the feeling of excitement and passion for life!
      Very inspiring!
  • Re: Words of Encouragement

    Thu, January 18, 2007 - 8:37 PM
    "The dancer of the future will be one whose body and soul have grown so harmoniously together that the natural language of that soul will have become the movement of the body. The dancer will not belong to a nation, but to all humanity. She will dance not in the form of nymph, nor fairy, nor coquette, but in the form of woman in her greatest and purest expression. She will dance the changing life of nature, showing how each part is transformed into the other. From all parts of her body shall shine radiant intelligence, bring to all the world the message of the thoughts and aspirations of thousands of women. She shall dance the freedom of woman." -Isadora Duncan
    • Re: Words of Encouragement

      Fri, January 19, 2007 - 7:20 AM
      I love it all! Thank you both. Alura, the longer poem that you posted made me cry, it was so beautiful.
      • Re: Words of Encouragement

        Fri, January 19, 2007 - 7:43 AM
        fully alive - by dawna markova


        I will not die an unlived life.
        I will not live in fear
        of falling or catching fire.
        I choose to inhabit my days,
        to allow my living to open me,
        to make me less afraid,
        more accessible,
        to loosen my heart
        until it becomes a wing,
        a torch, a promise.
        I choose to risk my significance;
        to live so that which came to me as seed
        goes to the next as blossom
        and that which came to me as blossom,
        goes on as fruit.
  • Re: Words of Encouragement

    Wed, January 9, 2008 - 3:18 PM
    We got away from Encouragement quotes and got caught up in poems (which I do sometimes. I love poetry.) but I want to get back to eliciting consise words of encouragement that we can add to our consciousness easily, bite size pieces that we can cultivate and call upon when we need them. I use quotes for consciousness reprogramming and I encourage others to also. A little encouragment goes a long way. So here's some more. I think this one is particularly relevant to hooping:

    "Keep on going, and the chances are that you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I never heard of anyone ever stumbling on something sitting down." ~ Charles F. Kettering
  • Re: Words of Encouragement

    Thu, January 10, 2008 - 4:50 AM
    Nothing in the world can take the place of Persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan 'Press On' has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race.
    ~ Calvin Coolidge

    Here are some quotes from "Conversations with God" - if you are familiar.. www.iloveulove.com/spiritua...uotes.htm

    & here is my favorite inspirational poem...I can't help it I have to add it..
    To be of use
    by Marge Piercy
    The people I love the best
    jump into work head first
    without dallying in the shallows
    and swim off with sure strokes almost out of sight.
    They seem to become natives of that element,
    the black sleek heads of seals
    bouncing like half submerged balls.

    I love people who harness themselves, an ox to a heavy cart,
    who pull like water buffalo, with massive patience,
    who strain in the mud and the muck to move things forward,
    who do what has to be done, again and again.

    I want to be with people who submerge
    in the task, who go into the fields to harvest
    and work in a row and pass the bags along,
    who stand in the line and haul in their places,
    who are not parlor generals and field deserters
    but move in a common rhythm
    when the food must come in or the fire be put out.

    The work of the world is common as mud.
    Botched, it smears the hands, crumbles to dust.
    But the thing worth doing well done
    has a shape that satisfies, clean and evident.
    Greek amphoras for wine or oil,
    Hopi vases that held corn, are put in museums
    but you know they were made to be used.
    The pitcher cries for water to carry
    and a person for work that is real.
    • Unsu...
       

      Re: Words of Encouragement

      Thu, January 10, 2008 - 7:06 AM
      The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars.....Jack Kerouac



      Shine on you crazy diamond
      :)
  • Re: Words of Encouragement

    Sun, January 27, 2008 - 4:54 PM
    Look at a stone cutter hammering away at his rock, perhaps a hundred times without as much as a crack showing in it. Yet at the hundred-and-first blow it will split in two, and I know it was not the last blow that did it, but all that had gone before. ~Jacob A. Riis
    • Words of Encouragement... some of my fav quotes :)

      Tue, February 19, 2008 - 4:52 PM
      Thought I'd share some of my favorite quotes!

      BTW my name is Rose! New hooper in the Triad :) Nice to meet you all, you seem like a great community!!!
      Thank you all for the encouragement everyone!! Especially you Caroleena!!

      "There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action and because there is only one of you in all of time this expression is unique. And if you block it it will never exist through any other medium and be lost. The world will not have it." --Martha Graham

      "The high mission of any art is, by its illusions, to foreshadow a higher universe reality, to crystallize the emotions of time into the thought of eternity." ~ The Urantia Book

      "Creativity is allowing yourself to make mistakes. Art is knowing which ones to keep." -- Scott Adams

      "The truest expression of a people is in it's dances and it's music. Bodies never lie" --Agnes de Mille

      "We should consider every day lost on which we have not danced at least once. And we should call every truth false which was not accompanied by at least one laugh" -- Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche (1844- 1900)

      "Art is the communication of exctasy" -- Sergei Ospensky

      "A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle" -- Erin Majors

      Happy Hooping:D!!
      • Re: Words of Encouragement... some of my fav quotes :)

        Tue, February 19, 2008 - 10:52 PM
        OH!!!! These are so good! And this one is my particular favorite. I would SO LOVED to have met Martha Graham!!!!

        "There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action and because there is only one of you in all of time this expression is unique. And if you block it it will never exist through any other medium and be lost. The world will not have it." --Martha Graham

        That makes me tear up. So beautiful and so TRUE!!!!
  • Re: Words of Encouragement

    Wed, July 2, 2008 - 9:33 AM
    With yesterday being the 150th year anniversary of Darwin's theory of evolution, I studied up on him a little and found this quote~

    "You have powers you never dreamed of. You can do things you never thought you could do. There are no limitations in what you can do except the limitations of your own mind."

    Hoping that each of you continue to evolve beautifully in your hoop practice. :)
  • I am a quote fiend...

    Thu, July 3, 2008 - 12:51 PM
    so this thread is perfect! I've hoarded a few more from it already :D

    This first one is a bit longer and I actually found it on a blog quotes community a few years ago, but I love it.

    Getting older is an interesting thing.
    I still wish on the first star I see every night...it might sound dumb, but I do. What I wish for, though, has changed. When I was little, I would always have these really specific wishes: "Let this person like me," "Let this happen," and so on and so forth. Now, though, when I look up and see the first star (IE, Venus), I always just whisper, "Let it all be for the best."


    Ultimately time is all you have, and the idea isn't to save it, but to savor it.
    -Ellen Goodman

    Too much sanity may be madness. And maddest of all, to see life as it is and not as it should be!
    - Miguel de Cervantes

    The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want.
    -Ben Stein

    Everything has its beauty but not everyone sees it.
    -Confucius

    It does not matter how slowly you go so long as you do not stop.
    -Confucius

    Wheresoever you go, go with all your heart.
    -Confucius

    When shit brings you down, just say 'Fuck it,' and eat yourself some motherfucking candy.
    -Paul Sedaris

    Whatever we have done with our lives makes us what we are when we die. And everything, absolutely everything, counts.
    -Sogyal Rinpoche

    If you obey all the rules you will miss the fun.
    -Katherine Hepburn

    If you're going through hell, keep going.
    -Winston Churchill

    We are all worms, but I do believe that I am a glow-worm.
    -Winston Churchill

    Is life not a hundred times too short for us to bore ourselves?
    -Nietzsche

    A ship in harbor is safe -- but that is not what ships are for.
    -John A. Shedd

    One cannot consent to creep when one has an impulse to soar.
    -Helen Keller

    Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone.
    -Pablo Picasso

    Beauty is in the heart of the beholder.
    - Al Bernstein

    I believe absolutely that the only way to live life is to throw yourself right at it; the price of excessive ardour may well be frequent disappointment, but that is surely better than feeling detached and disengaged, which must be the underlying, haunted state of the cautious and measured.
    -Nigella Lawson

    I'm not afraid of tomorrow, for I have seen yesterday and I love today.
    -William Allen White

    Chase your passion, not your pension.
    -Denis Waitley

    No day is so bad it can't be fixed with a nap.
    -Carrie Snow

    Speak your mind, even if your voice shakes.
    -Maggie Kuhn

    Oh my heart feels like a spring, and next to it lies my old deep sullen well, let it, I'm not drawing from it these days.
    -Rilke

    Men must live and create. Live to the point of tears.
    -Albert Camus

    There is a bit of insanity in dancing that does everybody a great deal of good.
    -Edwin Denby

    Stifling an urge to dance is bad for your health - it rusts your spirit and your hips.
    -Adabella Radici

    Have a sense of fun and wonder. That should never go away.
    -Randy Pausch

    We work to become, not to acquire.
    -Elbert Hubbard

    Laughing at our mistakes can lengthen our own life. Laughing at someone else's can shorten it.
    - Cullen Hightower

    If we have the opportunity to be generous with our hearts, ourselves, we have no idea of the depth and breadth of love's reach.
    -Margaret Cho

    "Life is short. Put on weird clothes."

    "It's a good life, if you just don't give up."


    And some ancient sources, because I'm a Classics major:

    They can because they think they can.
    -Virgil

    Even one hair has a shadow.
    -Publilius Syrus

    There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.
    -Publilius Syrus

    To find yourself, think for yourself.
    -Socrates

    Even his griefs are a joy long after to one that remembers all that he wrought and endured.
    -Homer
    • Re: I am a quote fiend...

      Thu, July 3, 2008 - 1:42 PM
      A classics major may also appreciate a quote from Seneca:

      "The intellect must not be kept at consistent tension, but diverted by pastimes. Socrates was not ashamed to play with little boys, Cato took wine to relax his mind when it was fatigued with official responsibilities, and Scipio's soldierly and triumph-crowned person trod the paces of the dance."

  • Then there is Mary Oliver....

    Wed, July 9, 2008 - 9:43 PM
    The Summer Day

    Who made the world?
    Who made the swan, and the black bear?
    Who made the grasshopper?
    This grasshopper, I mean-
    the one who has flung herself out of the grass,
    the one who is eating sugar out of my hand,
    who is moving her jaws back and forth instead of up and down-
    who is gazing around with her enormous and complicated eyes.
    Now she lifts her pale forearms and thoroughly washes her face.
    Now she snaps her wings open, and floats away.
    I don't know exactly what a prayer is.
    I do know how to pay attention, how to fall down
    into the grass, how to kneel in the grass,
    how to be idle and blessed, how to stroll through the fields,
    which is what I have been doing all day.
    Tell me, what else should I have done?
    Doesn't everything die at last, and too soon?
    Tell me, what is it you plan to do
    With your one wild and precious life?
  • Re: Words of Encouragement

    Thu, July 10, 2008 - 2:38 PM
    I'm a Quote Ho too! Here are some of my favorites, particularly as they relate to my hooping practice:

    "Ring the bells that still can ring
    Forget your perfect offering
    There is a crack, a crack in everything
    That's how the light gets in."

    -Leonard Cohen

    This is the full Martha Graham quote. The first half of the quote inspires me, but the second half of the quote is the only thing that keeps me going some days:

    "There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is nor how valuable nor how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open. You do not even have to believe in yourself or your work. You have to keep yourself open and aware to the urges that motivate you. Keep the channel open."

    ~from The Life and Work of Martha Graham

    “When you let go of trying to get more of what you don’t really need, it frees up oceans of energy to make a difference with what you have. When you make a difference with what you have, it expands.”
    ~Lynne Twist


    "You are as young as your faith, as old as your doubt, as young as your self-confidence, as old as your fear, as young as your hope, as old as your despair.”

    ~Paul H. Duhn

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